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Travelling back in time on a Flat Rock roadby Rob Neufeld             If you walk the one mile length of North Highland Lake Road in Flat Rock, you step nearly 200 years into the past.            At the east end, the 21st century reigns.  Fronting six-lane Spartanburg Highway, a super-Ingles sits above a bog; and a CVS store faces an Octopus Garden smoke shop, a chiropractor, a cell phone provider, and a six-lane avenue to I-26 a mile away .            Neither Ingles nor CVS carries the big…See More
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"Waste Not Want Not" was a saying past generations used and lived by-because they had too. Wasting for past generations was considered shameful. Hard times caused folks to use what they had-to make do.

Miss Bonnie, my husband's Grandmother was born in 1914. She was a typist for Champion International, then after having children, a stay at home mom.

At the age of 55 Miss Bonnie started a new career as a lifeguard at the YMCA. She worked as a lifeguard at the Y until she retired at the age of 76. Some folks said she taught half the town of Canton, NC to swim.

Miss Bonnie lived her life with a "waste not want not" attitude. Even during the later years of her life she still carried the saying along with her in her mind-and in the daily actions of her life.

Miss Cindy (Bonnie's daughter-my husband's mother) recently shared a few details about Bonnie's waste not time at the Y with me. The YMCA supplied soap for the patrons to use. Most folks would shower-and leave the little brown bar laying in the stall only having been used one time. Miss Bonnie would collect the soap instead of throwing it away. She took the bars home and put them in a plastic mesh bags-like the ones that oranges come in. She used it to wash clothes and dishes-holding the bag under running water. She just couldn't bear throwing the perfectly good soap in the garbage day after day.

Miss Cindy said Bonnie felt the same way about the clothing and towels folks left at the YMCA. The Y's policy was to keep the items a few weeks to see if anyone came back for them, if no one did the items were thrown away. But not on Miss Bonnie's watch. Once Bonnie found out the unclaimed items were being put in the garbage-she started taking the items home to see if anyone she knew could use them-and if they couldn't she sent them to the local Salvation Army.

My Papaw grew up with the same "waste not" attitude. I remember one time he accidentally poured tea in his cereal-not wanting to waste it-he ate it anyway.

While I can't live up to Miss Bonnie's actions-I do hate to waste things. I feel bad about food that isn't eaten-but I do feed it to the neighbor's dog. I feel bad about clothes or shoes that somehow never get the use worn out of them-but I donate them to a local charity or send them to the consignment shop. What about you-do you have a good example of "waste not want not" for me?

To read more about my Appalachian Heritage-and hear some mighty fine pickin' & grinnin' vist me at the Blind Pig & The Acorn.


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Comment by Jan Webb on March 24, 2009 at 6:04pm
I enjoyed reading this about Miss Bonnie. She was my dad's double first cousin and I remember her fondly. You are right about her teaching everyone to swim!! Thanks for the memory.

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